Decorations will vary widely, depending upon
where you are having your Prom. Some hotels
and other facilities do all the decorating of tables, as well as
providing a balloon arch for the dance floor. Other places will expect
you
to do all of the decorating. Many ballrooms
are quite beautiful, and will
need very little in the way of decorations. But your student committee
will
have ideas about this. They will be able to choose the color of the
linens,
and whatever other extras the facility
may provide. Decorating can be very
time consuming. So if you find a facility that is willing to decorate
for
you, it will be very helpful. But if you are having your dance at a
facility
that doesn't help, the students are usually very capable of doing the
work
themselves.
There are a variety of locations to be found for use for high school
proms.
The most common are hotels. But even these
can vary widely in the both the
size of their ballrooms and the services offered. It would be wise for
you
to go and look at various locations in person so that you can see what
they
offer.
Most guys wear tuxedos to their proms, which according to
Emily Post is considered -semi-formal attire. But if you have a nice
dark-colored suit, you might be able to wear that, depending on your
particular dance. The school or social mores where you live may require
a tux for the evening. (However, in California, people are much more
unconventional and casual--so check out your options. )
The DJ can make or break a Prom. The right Prom dance
music is essential. You need to
book a DJ about six months in advance. December is a good time to book
for the following May. Always get a contract, and put in writing what
you
will be expecting from the DJ. Students are usually very good at
choosing
a DJ and the songs to play. Poll the student body for a list of songs
and music they want to hear at their Prom. Let the student committee do
the legwork and get the DJ pool down to
three or four before you start doing your checking. References are
absolutely essential for a DJ that works a Prom. It is your biggest
dance
of the year, and you don't want it to be ruined by a bad DJ. ...
We also saw some
things that were glaring errors on the red carpet. One major one was
big bows!!! They seemed to show up in the most unlikely of places...on
shoulders, in the front, and across the back. Don't get us wrong, we
don't dislike bows....but the size should be small....not a massive
thing the won't be ignored. Also be careful about how full skirt is on
your gown. Very few people can pull off a great big skirt, and those
people are usually tall and way thin.
So, keep it simple,
underplay your accessories, and look at all you are wearing as a
"look." Then you will make great decisions for your own Prom Night!
The advice I always
give is that they should try on lots
and lots of Prom dresses, even if they don't think they like a dress on
the
hanger. You never know until you try it on. Also, they
should take someone with them to give his or her opinion as to which
dress looks best on them. It is difficult to do, but a girl needs
to look past how pretty a Prom dress is and really see how the Prom
dress makes
her look. For example, a very full-skirted ball gown won't look
as good on someone who is short. It tends to make a short girl
look shorter, where a slimmer skirt will show off her petite frame.
The cost of Prom
Night can vary greatly from around $150 to as much as $1500. But you
don't have to spend a fortune to have a good time if you plan ahead and
make intelligent choices. Just be sure that when you decide to spend
money on a particular item the money spent is worth it to you. It is
your money and your night; choose wisely. The following is a list of
items that will probably be part of your evening's expenses: